- I’m taking a summer hiatus!Hello everyone! I'm taking a break from posting blogs until August. In the meantime, take...
- Take the three month sex challengeEvery week on SexTok, my weekly podcast, I set a sex challenge for the week....
- How to say rude things without laughingThis is the third in a series of posts designed to help you enjoy three...
- How to strip without feeling sillyThis is the second in a series of posts designed to help you enjoy three...
- How to roleplay without feeling like an idiotIt’s a fact that we’re all far more sexually adventurous in our heads than in...
- How to reconnect after a sex droughtHaven't had sex in...well, let's not even talk about how long? Long enough to make...
- Pre-written sex conversations to help you talk about sex with your partnerHow do you talk about sex with a partner if you've never talked about sex...
- What it feels like when you can’t make your partner orgasmI’ve been writing about sex for a long time yet the statistics for how many...
- The good sex etiquette guide: bedside manners guaranteed to impress!Ever sent a sexy photo – without being asked? Ignored the hint to leave after...
- Sexy gift ideas (that won’t backfire)Buying your partner a sexy Christmas present isn’t as simple as it sounds – especially...
- The 8 conversations about sex all couples should havePart of this originally appeared as one of my weekly MailOnline columns. It got so...
- Is it a bad sign if your partner still masturbates solo?Short answer – no. Lots of people think it must mean their partner isn’t enjoying...
- How do the new ED drugs stack up against Viagra?Q: Can you discuss the pros and cons of erectile dysfunction drugs like Tadalafil/Cialis and...
- How (and when) to resume having sex after an affairI did a special SexTok podcast recently, focusing on the after effects of cheating and...
- Anyone up for sleeping with my wife?For most of us, our partner having sex with someone else would be our worst...
- 20 new things to do in bed this weekendEveryone knows you need to try new things to keep your sex life fresh and...
- Why do I have to be drunk to enjoy sex?Q: I never want sex unless I’ve had some wine. It relaxes me and gives...
- The top 13 lust killersYou can’t have great sex if your relationship is in tatters. Identify the deadly sex...
- The 10 different sex personalities: what’s yours?Forget everything you’ve ever heard about opposites attracting - in bed it’s far more helpful...
- To bare or not to bare: the new etiquette for pubic hair, drunk sex and how much sex is enough sex?So, most of you will know that I am now doing a weekly podcast with...
- Excuses, excuses: what to say if your partner won’t try new things in bedYou’re eagerly anticipating a feisty frolic, one hand hopefully hovering over your zip, and they...
- Fit for sex: healthy genitals = happy sex lifeWe devise fitness regimes to give us bigger biceps or shapely bottoms but few people...
- 10 new ideas to get the most out of your anal toysThis is a series of posts designed to make sure you’re getting the most out...
- 10 new ideas to get the most out of your strokerThis series of posts are designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of...
- A spot of slap and tickle: the beginner’s guide to spankingTheories on why a slap on the bottom feels sexy abound. Some say it’s the...
- Want to have more mindful sex? Try Tantra, Taoism and the Kama SutraAncient ‘life manuals’ like the Kama Sutra might well be marvellously eccentric, slightly quirky and...
- 10 new ideas to get the most out of your G-spot vibeThis is a series of posts designed to make sure you’re getting the most out...
- 10 new ideas to get the most out of your rabbit vibratorThis series of posts are designed to make sure you’re getting the most out of...
- Guilty pleasures: Am I weird for fantasising about that?Here’s a comforting thought: no-one’s worked out how to read minds yet. Which means it...
- How to use a vibrator on a man"I’ve heard that men like vibrators used on them. But how and where and how...
- 18 sex treats to make this Valentine’s her best yetWondering how the hell to make this Valentine’s special when you can’t go to a...
- Sex after surgery or illnessThis is a huge issue and something I can’t hope to do justice to in...
- What do orgasms feel like?Do orgasms feel the same for everyone? Does his orgasm feel different than hers? Read...
- The 10 lies (nearly) all of us tell about sexPeople lie about sex for two basic reasons: to protect a partner’s feelings or to...
- Get your steamiest sex wish granted (without scaring him off)There’s a perception that women are the ones who react with horror if their partner...
- 8 last-minute sex toy gifts to suit everyoneGot that horrible, sweaty pre-Christmas panic going on because you still haven't come up with...
- How to have an orgasm – for women who never haveThere's a lot written about the orgasm gap - how men almost always achieve orgasm...
- Six quirky sex tricks to give you the X-factorPhotograph by Mahrael Boutros I’m often asked what makes a good lover. Enthusiasm is an...
- You will never be good at oral sex unless you follow these six rulesPhotograph by Dainis Graveris Giving great oral is part attitude, part technique and a whole...
- How to have the perfect argument in three easy stepsArguing more because you're both under more stress? Join the club: research suggests more than...
- A hands-on guide to the most popular female masturbation techniquesWelcome to Lockdown 2: The Sequel. Sigh. The good news is, if you're working from...
- Three simple ways to fix a broken body imageAnother day, another restriction imposed. And for lots of people, this means more nights in,...
- Five great sex ‘kits’ to break the lockdown sex slumpPhotograph by Artem Labunsky One in ten of us haven’t had sex since lockdown began...
- Sex through the decades: which one is the best?Like most things, sex gets better the more you do it and the more practised...
- Energiser, connector, controller or stabiliser. What’s your sex personality?Are you an adventurous 'energiser' or a 'connector' who's more interested in connecting hearts than...
- How to talk to your kids and teens about sexNo Shame should be compulsory reading for all parents. It’s – without a doubt –...
- What do you do if your husband isn’t interested in sex anymore?Here's my latest video with the fabulous tonic magazine, where I give some workable solutions...
- The cool, new sex toys we snapped up during lockdown (and you’ll want now)Some baked cookies and planted herb gardens. Others amused themselves by being a little less...
- How to talk to your partner when sex stopsSex stops in relationships for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes, it's a natural break and...
- Are your genitals making you unhappy?Image by Dainis Graveris In an ideal world, all of us would feel confident of...